The Problem
I have been working on my genealogy for over 30 years now and I have been searching for clues about my great-grandma's mother, Nora Stollings, since the beginning. I knew my great-grandma Mae very well growing up as well as her brother Kenneth, whom I knew as "Uncle Bud". I was blessed to have them share stories with me here and there but over the years I noticed they never spoke of their mother. I was an adult by the time I realized this and Grandma Mae was, by that time, aged and frail, living in a nursing facility, and wasn't able to share stories with me anymore. I worked at a senior citizens' center in my area and often delivered meals to the elders in the neighborhood. One day while dropping off Uncle Bud's lunch to him, I thought to ask him about his mother. He simply said, "We lived with Daddy. We didn't have no mommy," and he left it at that with a smile. Great Grandma Mae passed away in 2003 and Uncle Bud left us in 2012. With both of them gone and their cousins supposedly clueless about their mother's existence, I was left with nobody else to extract clues from. The only way to figure things out is by combing through documents and using context clues while hoping my DNA gets a match.
Documents with her name are very few and most seem to lead to women who are not her, more often to a particular cousin. Some researchers have even combined these women with another cousin whose name isn't even Nora. Anytime a hint for Nora pops up on Ancestry, I click on it only to find it leads to the cousins. Many researchers online seem to have a problem distinguishing the difference between them and combine them into one person. Here I sort out the information and highlight the facts that will make these three women distinguishable from one another in hopes to help other descendants of these women connect themselves to the correct one.
Nora A. Stollings
1910 U.S. Federal Census; Spencer, Logan County, West Virginia |
My great-great grandma Nora A. Stollings was born in Logan County to Perry David Stollings and Luemma Burgess. According to the 1910 U.S. Federal Census [1], she lived at Spencer with her parents and siblings. The census was taken on April 20, 1910 and lists her as 9-years-old. Doing the math, I conclude that her 10th birthday fell after April 20th of that year. That means she was born sometime between late April and December of 1901. The names of her parents are recorded on the document as Perry and Luemma. Perry is listed as working as a farmer while Luemma is listed as having no occupation. The names and ages of her siblings are as follows: Eva (12), Ida (7), Freeman (4), Chester L. (2).
I found my family again in the 1920 Census.[2] By that year, Perry had started working as a wagon driver in the coal yard. Luemma still had no occupation nor did any of the children. My Great-grandma was 18 when the census enumerator visited the home on January 3, 1920. Because she was 18 and not 19 yet in the month of January, her birthdate would have to be later than January. This supports my theory that her birthday must fall after April 20 (when the 1910 Census was taken).
Nora A. Stollings & Millard Blankenship's Marriage License |
The best source of information that I have found so far is a marriage license.[3] My Great-grandfather, Thomas Millard Blankenship married Nora A. Stollings on June 26, 1920 in Clothier, West Virginia. Clothier is a town in Boone County next door to the county their children would be raised in. The names of her parents are documented again as Perry Stollings and Luemma Burgess. She was 19 at the time of her marriage. Because she was 9 on the 1910 Census in April, she would have been 18 on the same date in 1920, yet she was 19 on June 26. That means her birthdate falls somewhere between April 20, 1901 and June 26, 1901. Before they divorced, Nora and Millard had two children, my grandmother Sylvia Mae who was born in 1921 and my granduncle Kenneth Ray, born in 1925. Death and burial information on my great-great grandmother are unknown at this time.
Nora E. Stollings
1920 U.S. Federal Census; Chapmanville, Logan, West Virginia |
Nora E. Stollings was the daughter of John "French" Stollings and Medora Smith. French was the younger brother of Robert "Pierce" Stollings, the other Nora's paternal grandfather. Nora E. Stollings was the 1st Cousin-Once Removed of Nora A. Stollings. Nora E. was born on August 13, 1903. On the 1920 U.S. Federal Census [4], Nora E. is shown as 16-years-old, living in the house of her father, along with her mother and siblings: Kenton, Clement, Millard, Chester, Courtney, and Roy. By this time, her sisters Belvia and Hettie and her brother Newton had all passed away.
Nora Stollings and Opie Conley Marriage License |
Nora E. married Opie Clyde Conley on July 3, 1924 in Boone County, West Virginia.[5] Nora and Opie's children were: Aeola Avis Conley, James Darrell Conley, Delmer Paul Conley, Dael Conley, Harold Hugh Conley, Linda Lou Conley, and Carol Sue Conley. This Nora is buried at Stollings Cemetery in Big Creek, Logan County, West Virginia.[6]
1940 U.S. Federal Census; Gordon, Boone, West Virginia [7] |
Norma E. Stollings-The Other "Nora"
The third lady who tends to get confused in the mix is a distant cousin of both Nora Stollings but her name isn't Nora, it's Norma. When you look through marriage records for "Nora Stollings" on wvculture.org you will find marriage records for all three women: the one who married Millard Blankenship, the one who married Opie Conley, and the one who married Raymond Douglas Rayburn. The one who married Rayburn was actually Norma.
Norma E. Stollings and Raymond Rayburn Marriage Record [8] |
According to her marriage record Norma E. Stollings was born in 1904, the daughter of Loy Oley Stollings and Nancy Barker. This Stollings family also lived in Boone County, West Virginia not too far from the other homes of the other ladies. The 1920 U.S. Federal Census for Norma show her living in the home of her parents along with her brother Hallie.
1920 U.S. Federal Census; Washington District, Boone County, West Virginia [9] |